It is incredible that when I stop to see myself - how I am acting in life - I notice how much we all - as humans, react to other humans exactly how we are feeling toward ourselves. I = WE.
For example: if I am mad with my relationship, a friend, my body, my crazy mind, I will - sooner or later - get back such madness to someone that can be anybody... including a neighbor (who has nada to do with you) but MYSELF! That's the general tendency of us all... we tend to blame others because of our own s**t.
I have this friend who always says: "it's my own s**t, I will deal with it".
So, for moments like these, I put myself (and my life) in perspective and start fighting my own flight, without hurting anybody - including myself.
For example: if I am mad with my relationship, a friend, my body, my crazy mind, I will - sooner or later - get back such madness to someone that can be anybody... including a neighbor (who has nada to do with you) but MYSELF! That's the general tendency of us all... we tend to blame others because of our own s**t.
I have this friend who always says: "it's my own s**t, I will deal with it".
So, for moments like these, I put myself (and my life) in perspective and start fighting my own flight, without hurting anybody - including myself.